Now that we’ve determined why and what we should give, the question of “how” must be addressed. Here are four biblical principles informing how we should give – regularly, intentionally, cheerfully, and humbly.
First, we should give regularly. Paul writes to the Corinthians, “On the first day of every week, each of you is to put something aside and store it up, as he may prosper, so that there will be no collecting when I come.” (1 Cor. 16:2) Throughout the New Testament we see the church gathered on Sunday (cf. Acts 20:7; Hb. 4:9-10), and Paul instructs the church to give when they are gathered each week. This does not mean that we have to give monetary offerings each week, but it does mean that our giving should be regular (perhaps as often as you are compensated).
Second, from 1 Corinthians 16:2 we also see that our giving should be planned – “put something aside and store it up…” Similarly in 2 Corinthians 9:7 Paul writes, “Each one must give as he has decided in his heart…” Paul twice tells the Corinthians to think about and plan for their giving. Intentional thought and deliberate planning should accompany our giving. We are not to merely show up and give out of impulse or simply offer what we happen to have in our pocket. God is most honored when we take deliberate time to think, plan and pray about our giving.
In 2 Corinthians 9:7 we find a third principle for how we should give – “Each one must give as he has decided in his heart, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver.” Paul said the Macedonians gave “of their own free will” (8:3). We are not to give begrudgingly or with an attitude of obligation, but willingly and cheerfully. With a proper understanding of the gospel comes one who freely and cheerfully gives.
Fourthly, our giving should be done with humility. Jesus taught us, “do not let your left hand know what your right hand is doing, so that your giving may be in secret. And your Father who sees in secret will reward you.” (Mt. 6:3-4). We do not give to impress others, but in humility knowing that we are seeking to worship God alone through our giving.